I Really Don't Know What to Do Anymore!

by Mel
(Karachi, Sindh, Pakistan)

Mel wrote from Karachi, Sindh, Pakistan in one long paragraph, I divided here, "I've been together with a guy since last two years now. I met him on the internet three years back".

"We both were best friends before being boyfriend/girlfriend, personality wise and a complete copy of one another. After a year however, we decided we were one for each other and took our friendship one step further".

"The first year went pretty great together, however, the second year was his senior year of college, (my freshman year) and he claimed busy times, tough routines, college net problems, etc..."

"After the senior year however, he moved out, got a job and now works 9 to 6pm as an assistant manager in an automobile company, and again claims tough times, no routine, and no time together with me".

"I should be understanding, I know, and I try to be, a lot, I even try to do everything possible together from this distance, just to cheer him up, and it does, but he has stopped putting in an effort completely".

"And I mean it, completely as in he would now rather sleep or watch TV to relax after work, than come online just to say hi. If I try connecting to him through Facebook, he deletes up my comment and claims he doesn't want anyone to know".

"I know the thought arises that he might be cheating on me, but its not that way at all, because there's no sign of some other girl in his life anywhere".

"But, if it's not that way, then I don't understand why he takes me for granted, or doesn't put an effort, and yet is completely serious about our commitment and wants to marry me sooner in the future".

"What should I do? Because I'm a conservative person and don't make many friends, and he knows he's the only one I share everything with, and since he doesn't put an effort for that also anymore, I am left helplessly alone and broken. Please help me".

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