How to Choose My Life Partner?

by Somebody
(Hyderabad, Andhra Pradesh, India)

Somebody wrote from Hyderabad, Andhra Pradesh, India the following long request in one long paragraph including many confusing sentences, so we have not responded to it for this reason, per the guidelines: (You are welcome to respond to her).

I first fell in love while I was in the 10th class. He was very intelligent and he used to stand first in the class to answer questions. So, all the people around including the teachers liked him. It took me months to accept him.

After that we were happy for few months, but soon my letters, which he wrote were caught at my home. So, the school's authority changed his campus and my parents scolded me a lot.

From that date we both are apart from each other, but still did't stop writing letters. After we finished our 10th grade, my parents sent me to attend a 2 years education far from the place where we studied unit the 10th class.

We used to talk on phone, whenever we had a chance. But, after completing my 2 years studies, my family has shifted to another city. As his love was true, I am strong enough and sure that we will not be apart in this life.

My parents joined me in a degree and he too joined in engineering college in our native home. From here, my problem started. He didn't have a mobile, when I joined my degree studies, but at times I used to call to his dad's number and talk.

As days passing on I had a wrong number calling in the night's and keeping on messaging. I din't know anything about this and even never imagined that this could happen in my life. I slowly felt in love with the wrong number.

He used to live in the same city in which I am studying. I am just 18 years old. But, he is too elder than me and he completed his engineering studies and started searching for a job. Soon, I became so close to him even physically.

At the start I told him about my first love. But, I thought that I did something wrong. Few months later, I called to my 10th class lover and told him about everything that happened.

He told me to come back, but I was not in a position to do that, because first kiss, hug and everything I shared with this guy (the wrong number) becomes a feeling. It maybe a bad feeling. I don't know.

Now it is 3 years of relation with the wrong number. In this relation I used to cry a lot, because we had a habit of making new girlfriends on chats and mobile. We spent together only one year and later he got a job in other country and went away.

But, he used to be in contact with me. The thing is when I compare my first love and this guy I really feel bad. He used to scold me in foul language, which I didn't like. This guy never care when he is with his friends.

I had many nights weeping myself all alone because of loneliness. To be frank I am very reserved and wouldn't speak a lot with guys. In those lonely days I called up my 10th lover on his dad's number.

By luck he lifted the phone and he was very happy that I called him and he said he can't stay anymore without me. We both really had a healthy relation. I am sorry, I couldn't move with him out that time.

I again started speaking to my first love and am very happy too. But, the other guy in my life lost his job at the same time when I started with my first love. He used to come back to me whenever he needs me.

But, he knew that I talk to my ex. I am very confused to choose my partner. My first lover was very sincere, but I am very close to the other guy (the wrong number) sexually too. I am very depressed and I am not in a state to choose my partner.

Now, the 2nd guy in my life got his job and he is happy. But, he is asking me to come to his country for further studies. Whenever I think of my first love, I always feel tears rolling in my eyes.

I promised the 2nd guy that I will not call my first love again. My first lover said that he await my call and I can call him whenever I like to call and he calls me to come back to him. I don't know with whom I would be happy!

Comments

Your request is complicated and you have some confusing sentences, so we have not responded to it for this reason, per the guidelines. See this, "I slowly felt in love with the wrong number."

You could write simply explaining there is a second guy and then write simple request providing the required details. Life and love are simple. But, we tend to complicate things up. Be clear when you write and explain yourself well. See the guidelines on the main pages.



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