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by Kelly
(Panvel, Maharashtra, India)

I need some advices regarding some problems in my life related to personal relationships.

Hi. I liked a boy in my college but my close friend too had a crush on him. My friend is basically shy so I had to tell the boy that my friend has a crush on him.

He was shocked hearing that, but then he proposed her. I helped him to make things happen with her although I liked him very much.

Friendship started to blossom between him and me, few days after that. Recently when he was sad due to some reasons, he told me that he had a crush on me. I talked to him about my friend and the reason that made him propose her.

He likes her too. He is confused. I thought just about myself and said yes to him. We had a healthy relation for a while. However, he is very unpredictable. Our relation is also very complicated as he is committed to my friend.

We both do not want to hurt her. She loves him, but somewhere she is self-centred. Now she thinks that me and her boyfriend (my friend) are in a relation. She checks my cell regularly and secretly spy on me and her boyfriend.

We love each other very much. We were always together. He says he likes me more than he likes his girlfriend. Now there were some (ups and downs) in our relation due to my male friends. He cannot accept seeing me with any other boy.

He feels jealous, while I cannot do anything when he is with his girlfriend in front of me. I cannot even stop him. Today, I asked him to come over, but he did not.

I do understand that there may be a problem but then when we met later just because of one small reason he went away. Well I too went away.

Then he called me and said, "I'll not talk to you from now onwards and you too don't talk to me". I could not say anything to him.

I am really sad and do not know what to do. I cannot stop crying and I do not want to share this with any of my other friends. Please help.

Comments:

You said, "he is unpredictable" and "your relation is complicated" and you have not provided more information about this. We said at the guidelines you should write in details and provide complete information.

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