Attached, but Fell in Love with Another Guy!

by Catherine Goh
(Malaysia)

I am a girl who does not believe much in love as I heard too many sad and tragic love stories. I am in my late 20s and have a same age boyfriend, Willy.

We have common interests and we knew each other during our university-days. I can say he treats me quite nice, though sometimes he does vest his anger on me.

Recently, I get to work with my colleague, James who is 2 years older than I am. Initially, we chatted on phone then later on, he tried to ask me out for breakfast etc... He understands me quite well, as there is chemistry when we chat.

Sometime, I do not need to say much and he will know what I wanted to express. This impressed me too. It is just 2 weeks and he knows me quite well. He does know that I am attached but he is very nice to me.

I told myself, I should not involve with this guy as I am attached and I will feel guilty for Willy. He did nothing wrong. Nevertheless, I still cannot stop myself.

My heart just follows James. I think I fell in love with him and we started relationship. I can do many things that I did not do before just for him.

However, James knows and told me that he cannot give me anything or gives me good life as he's not educated and do not earn much. He does not want me to suffer with him.

Recently, he treats me very badly. He does not want to chat with me, but just wants to do his stuffs. I was wondering if he wants to stop this relationship! Whenever he ignored me, I will cry badly.

On the another hand, I know my family will not support me to be with James as they might worry that I might suffer.

I just cannot leave James but I am afraid he does not care about me as he used to his single and carefree life.

Should I stay with James?

Comments:

It is strange that you rely on short term relation with somebody who just wanted to get what he wants from you, although he knows you're engaged.

He just worked on you as an example that he can drive any woman, even if she is engaged.

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