Am I Doing Anything Wrong?

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Somebody wrote from India, "We are happy couple. We both love each a lot. We wanted to marry each other. But we belong to different sub-cast. She is Brahmin & am Sindhi. Both of our family is opposite of our marriage. She don't want to marry against her family. I can marry against my family as I believe they will accept both of us. Now problem is we are not able to marry but we want to be with each other. She says she is doing forcefully marriage, so she will continue our relationship. Which I don't want. I can be with her till she gets married, after that I don't want to be with her as it will affect her marriage life & also it will discredit to her name. I can't even think about another girl, am so much in love with her. Please suggest us possible solution".

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You wrote your request in one long paragraph, so we neglected it, the first time we saw it in December. This is a long time. We have not considered it because you have not considered to follow the guidelines we posted on the page you used to submit this request at Online Love Consulting.

We said at this page and at Online Free Consulting Services and Love Consulting Requests that we'll not respond to requests visitors wrote in a hurry without providing the details we want to analyze the problems. We neglect incomplete requests and request full of grammar mistakes.

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Shahab wrote from Shanghai, China, "My story is very long, I hope you wont be bored with it and help me to make the right decision".

He started, "I am an Iranian with all Middle Eastern romance feeling and my wife is a Russian with very cold and no romance, well at least in recent years. We met in Shanghai, living and working here. We are ESL kindergarten teachers. We are running a small business beside our work in the kindergarten too, the business makes us quite busy".

Then he wrote the following in long paragraphs:

I was with a Chinese wife, and completely corrupted in work and life when we met, so i divorced with the Chinese and started dating her. We were living in a different city and we had to travel for 4H to meet each other, my job in Shanghai wasn't very good but she had a good job, so she offered me to move to her city, so she supports me till I get a new job , so i did. But it was a mistake and I couldn't get a job there, she started blaming me that I'm using her and climbing her, and don't wanna find a job, we were fighting and fighting over and over, I had lost over 10kg weight as I was under her huge pressure and didn't want to even eat her offered food , and so she searched and found me a job in Shanghai where i was before. I interviewed and been accepted, the she found me a better job, so I interviewed and been accepted, and then i talked to the manager of the new company (the current kindergarten) to hire my wife too, so they did, and we both are working here for 3 years. I do love her but I feel that it is a one way highway only".

He said, "Anyway, although, the life if currently fine and we are also saving but she is still blaming me that she saved my life, she behaves like she hates me, we have sex like once a month if I force for that. Money is god for her. Relationship is a drama story for her and my feeling is nothing to her, she cares nothing about me even if get sick, she says that my salary is low so i shouldn't go to a good hospital to treat myself while I bought her a very expensive insurance. I bought a car and a house, the house is in her name and my name. All my good treating to her is a must and she feels no responsibility to treat back. She always talks about divorce but she never applies our went for it . I love her with all her bad but i cant stand it. Any time that I decided to go for the divorcing, something tells me, there still maybe away that I didn't try yet".

He added, "Please help me to make the right decision. Should I go for my 2nd divorce? Is there anyway to turn her to be good to me?"

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* We have not paid attention to this request, as you have written it in long paragraphs, neglecting the guidelines we posted at the three links above and there are some mistakes on it. You also have not mentioned whether you want to publish your name or not. We advised that it is necessary to mention this at the end of your request.

It is very necessary to follow the guidelines, so we could first pay attention to your request, since this service is free and it takes time, which you know costs money here. If you still want this service, write good requests, no matter how long your requests are.

We in fact need long requests full of details to help us see the problem better. So, do not worry about long requests. Worry only about the paragraphs and the language. Continue at the comment link at the bottom of the page.

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